Here is what happened:
First I made full upgrade of the available packetd, kernel, kernel modules and so on. Everything worked fine the new alsa 1.0.8 too! The problem with it was coming from this that it was compiled for kernel 2.4.29 and my old kernel was 2.4.26.
The skype program worked fine, it is not crushing anymore, rings , instant messaging works fine, BUT just in the moment in which the accept button for incoming call is pressed and the sound server halts!!!!
The next thing I did was to remove all alsa packages,
modprobe maestro (my soundcard is maestro something) and after that configured all to work with artsdsp, start skype with "artsdsp -m /usr/bin/skype" and now everything is working !
On my desktop everything is working with alsa but it's OK and with artsdsp !
Cheers
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Thank you for the attention and your help Greffov!
Cheers one again